Being pregnant fucking sucks. All these fucking anti-choice fuckers who act like it’s no big deal growing a human INSIDE YOU for nine fucking months have obviously never been pregnant. It’s not a minor fucking inconvenience. Your body doesn’t feel like your own anymore. And you go to the doctors and you’re like “Umm why the fuck am I taking 7kg shits? And why are my gums bleeding? And why do I vomit every time I piss which is every three seconds” and your doctor is just like “oh this is just part of being pregnant”. And then everyone is like “Enjoy it! You need to embrace it. Eat healthy and get lots of sleep and you’ll be fine” or “I never vomited once when I was pregnant, have you tried yoga?”. And you’re like falling asleep at work and vomiting on yourself during meetings, while trying to do your job even though your brain doesnt seem to work anymore. And you can only just handle ALL OF THIS without having a nervous breakdown because you’ve been trying for a baby for four years and it has finally happened. Imagine if you didn’t want it? It would actually be torture. And yet these anti-choice assholes are always like “It’s just nine months, then you can adopt it out” etc. I would write a post about it, but I can’t. Because I’m so fucking exhausted I feel like my face is going to fall off, even though I had a four hour nap today. I actually want to set fire to everything right now. I want to stab the world in the face.
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I don’t want to grow fetuses inside of me because that does not sound good or happy or joyful or meaningful to me, it just sounds like the better part of a year being sick and in a lot of pain and my body isn’t healthy enough for a healthy pregnancy anyway. That doesn’t mean that I don’t support pregnancy, or people who choose to be pregnant or stay pregnant or give birth. It just means that I will not be making the same decision as they will. And that’s abso-fucking-lutely fine.
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